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How are the bars where you live?
07-19-2013, 10:26 AM,
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How are the bars where you live?
Everyone lives in different locations... How are the bars? Are they a good place to meet people? Just wondering how the scene is and what the atmosphere is like.

Where I am from, unless you act and dress a certain way, it's hard to be accepted by anyone. More or less, if you fit the media image, that's prefect. Otherwise, there are few redneck bars and maybe two hippie bars, but mostly I live in a college town, with lots of bars. Even the latter bars are mostly a created mind set when you think about...

Well anyways, a college town is were I live. Most of the people are incapable of conservation. It kind of feels like less is better, in that trying to connect with someone works against you. You're better off starting to grind/fondle or maybe being a asshole. Which I could do, just being honest, but I wont.

I always thought that music videos and popular culture plays it's role. And I can play that role; dress a certain way, act a certain way. I just don't think it's worth it. Maybe that's why I still drink because I can see things for what they are... Where I live, there used to be the most bars per square mile in a county, in the United States. Where I am from, we are banned from drinking competitions in Mexico.

I really got sick of it and only started drinking again of late because of special occasions. There's a few things that I have going on, but after that I'm going to stop drinking, based mostly on a personal choice. Don't get me wrong, it's fun to see and meet people, it seems that the crowd are mostly brainwashed to act a certain way.

In the end, I have met some cool people going to the bars, but they are to far in between. Lastly, drinking isn't as fun as it use to be. Maybe I matured and see what's going on. The bars aren't that great, unless I go out with a good group of friends. Even with friends, I hear the message that's being blasted on the speakers and see the actions.

To conclude, the bars aren't worth going to. When I was working on my videos, I would go out for some escapism, to get away from what I was witnessing in my work. When I would be at the bars, I would see the same downward spiral that would be the music video world! Trust me, the media is shaping the youth today. I can attest to it because I have been living through it. For a brief second, I feel like I should just give in, to fit in with the crowd. In doing this, I would have to loose something, the sad part, I already lost most of what I once had. Basically, I just have to stay strong, no matter how easy it is to give in.
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07-20-2013, 06:25 PM,
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RE: How are the bars where you live?
Totally depends on where you live as to the coolness of the bars... I just closed a bar after 27 months and lost plenty of $$$ all along the way. But Ontario where i am is anti bar biz. 2 drinks an hour no triples or cocktail pitchers.

Only thing that worked was live bands and it's a real chore to get good ones cheep cause no-one wants to have to pay cover!!! Bars are not a good place to pick up unless your talking venereal disease. I'm a player in an open lifestyle and as the owner even then the pickings are dirty. chicks who are still drinking past 26-30 are mostly coke whores who don't know how to shag or suck, yet they keep trying. It's cheaper then a professional if your that type, but @ least pro's often require certain safety equipment meaning your lessening some risks.

As for drinking in the bars, we were only bar in town with pool if your looking to vent and male bond it works to find a pool hall most folks arn't sharks and also tend to gab, so conversation in the real world is had for a game of pool and a pint (you can cola it only we had a few recovering who were like that). But most guys go to the bar for 1 or more of 3 things. Conversation/ escapism, 2 to "fight" or 3 to pick up (not always opposite gender either lol)

For fems the bar is a different escape, maybe it's cause i Am in a small 15,000 pop town but most were in domestics and would have some friend who would bring them to the bar to vent and get riped. some do more then just drink but most don't as then next day there back to "home" Or to hussle free drinks and maybe some sex from a sucker (guy... fat girl , etc.) Or it's an occasion, date, girls night out kinda thing. Notice i didn't say to fight... this is because it's not on the average mind. yet in truth i had more "cat fights" in the tenure then guys. Interesting eh?!

Well now the town locks up @ 10 pm and midnight most friday/ saturday. cops are every where busting folks for dwi's only folks who drink regular in a rural area are the dye hard drinkers or folks of misfortune. I will eventually find a good stool in pub in old age when i give up smoking and having more then 2 an hour. Until then i will party like most of "fun civilized" north america and do it @ a private party where i can smoke and drink or have a bonfire or do "drinking sports" not subject to constant loud music and big screens!

Eatdrink007
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