How sexual do you feel about your wife after 1 year of marriage

[Weyland]

:biggrin:

Just was wondering what kind of response I would get If posted this question?

[Ognir]

I underwent marriage bliss for about a year and then it changed:LOL:

[Guest]

With the type women I seem to attract the only thing worth saving after 1 year would be the sex. :LOL:

[solar]

In my humble opinion ...

... even the most "sexual" of couples tend to be "touch deprived".

Mere sex does not equal true "loving touch" ...

... yet marital and/or relationship intimacy can be enhanced beyond all measure with true "loving touch".

Possible suggestions, for what it's worth:

Buy a good "massage" table ...

... aka as a "bodywork" table.

You just may find that a "massage" table is your best "relationship" investment ...

... whether you are married or not.

Take a "bodywork" class together ...

... and practice on each other afterwards.

Depending on where you live, there may be "bodywork" classes available on massage, acupressure, kinesiology, shiatsu, sports trigger point therapy, home chiropractic, etc.

You may have to travel a bit to take the class you want ...

... but for the sake of your relationship, it's worth it.

Can't afford a class ?

There are literally hundreds of books available in larger bookstores on massage, etc.

There are probably several hundred titles available at various bodywork sites and bodywork retailers on the web.

And more and more titles are appearing on "torrent" sites.

Begin researching various bodywork arts via articles on the web ...

... Wikipedia has an introductory article on massage at this link.

Buy and/or borrow a good book with explicit diagrams and learn together.

I knew one nineteen year old couple who were living together ...

... the lady told me that she was getting "fed up" with her boyfriend's daily demands for sex.

I told them both (bluntly) that what they called "sex" was probably "genitally" focused ...

... with massage, their bodies would open up to "full body orgasms" as opposed to limited "genital orgasms".

Her boyfriend told me that the first time she gave him a thorough head to toe three hour "Esalen" style Swedish massage ...

... his body went absolutely limp, and then he slept like a baby.

The next evening he did the same to her ...

... and he had to carry her to bed because she was so relaxed.

They are now very happily married.

"Sex" for both of them became "icing on the cake" ...

... it became a two or three times a month very "special event", as opposed to a daily impersonal stress reliever.

And of course, massage can be the best "foreplay".;)

I advised another couple who were in the middle of a divorce to "give it one more chance" ...

... and take a local acupressure class together.

They did take the class ...

... and they cancelled the divorce.

They are now both in the process of "changing careers" by training to become bodywork/sports professionals.

Why do you think that the world's security services incorporate "sensory deprivation" (also known as "touch deprivation") into their incarceration and interrogation regimens ?

Because "touch deprivation" is a form of ruling elite social control ...

... like male and female circumcision of children, if any of you have researched that topic.

Fellow ConCen member faust has suggested that the Admins begin an "activist" forum (at this thread).

In my (humble) opinion ...

... perhaps the Admins should start a bodywork/martial arts forum.

In my opinion, the quickest way to move through "conspiracy burnout" is to practice bodywork and/or the martial arts.

Possibly Hei Hu Quan, and TraxusIV, would like to expand on the previous statement.

In my opinion, one of the ruling elite strategies is to keep all people "touch deprived" ...:angry:

... as a ConCen member, wouldn't it behoove you to avoid being one of them ?

Now if you'll excuse me, I'll be offline for a few hours ...:P

... to receive a thorough head to toe three hour "Esalen" style Swedish massage.;)

[Rosebery]

Quote:I underwent marriage bliss for about a year and then it changed:LOL:

Quote:With the type women I seem to attract the only thing worth saving after 1 year would be the sex. :LOL:

OMG and me happily (well mostly) married for 15 years now!:dazed:

Cheers

[blove8.]

just a bunch of new age bollocks solar.. i'll stick with being unhappy and unsexual in my relationship, thx anyway. :wink:

[rockclimber]

Six years later, tis great and look forward to growing old with her, if it were possible.

[hardboiled11]

Blove8 is doing well, girls = over rated, and nothing but trouble, do something with your life instead like join the marines:)

[Rosebery]

Slightly at a tangent here's a brief exposee of how the male and female might view the subject in question after any length of time.

Her Dairy Wednsday Night:

He was quiet, subdued, just not himself. Something was wrong. He hasn't kissed me all night. Not even looked in my direction. I think it's another woman. I went to bed and cried. He followed me up later. I cuddled up to him and stroked his hair. He lay still. Eventually we made love and fell asleep in each other's arms.

His Diary The Same Evening:

England lost again. Fucking gutted. Got a shag though!

Cheers

[Easy Skanking]

After one year of marriage I felt sexual enough to get a divorce so I could have sex again.
That was a most wise decision on my part. =)

[LeveL]

"How sexual do you feel about your wife after 1 year of marriage?"

Give me a wife for a year and I will let you know. :P

[faust]

Sex for me gets better every year that passes, as well as the love I have for my right hand...

[Rod]

Quote:Sex for me gets better every year that passes, as well as the love I have for my right hand...

:LOL:nice...

As far as sex getting better, I have no idea, never been married.

[faust]

All jokes aside, sex is great. Married for 7 years and each year it was great :laugh:

Don't get married ffs!

[Ognir]

I said *BLISS* and I actually enjoyed that year so much, after that, it was just marriage, did 5.5 more years of that, paid 1/2 of my shit to her and we split